This is just a post for me to see how fans really feel and think about the dating issue with the idols mentioned above. Both groups are popular and this means they will get a lot of attention. Fans humoring dating fantasies are nothing new in the idol world and these fantasies falling apart are never easy to endure. Some people are saying fans are upset in this dating scenario because of being deceived. This has to do with some promises made a while back and various people will say it was only Baekhyun or both idols that made such promises. The promises go something like Baekhyun saying he would not date until he turns 35 years old and Taeyeon will not date until she is done with music. I see more posts about the promise Baekhyun supposedly made than the one concerning Taeyeon, but I cannot find a source or video proof of either promise. The fact remains that some fans are overreacting and the actions they are conducting vary. These actions include calling Taeyeon names, calling both idols traitors, calling for Baekhyun’s removal from EXO, mass leaving the fan cafe of EXO (the figure varies from account to account) and so on. Some people defend their anger by saying it was wrong of Taeyeon and Baekhyun to deceive their fans with Instagram posts and so on. My response to that is asking if said people really believe anger is a proper response. I can understand disappointment because a bias dating is like watching your child marry and move out of the house. You don’t want to let go and you might deny it at first, but you have to let go eventually. That’s how I see it at least. These promises were likely made when the idols believed their fame would stop them from having a relationship until then or it was made with the belief that they could never reveal their relationship, until a time when their popularity wold likely take a decrease to allow dating. I say fans should forgive the breach of these supposed promises and understand that love probably hit hem when they least expected it. Some people are saying it is not about jealousy, but I believe it is not likely that some fans are not angry due to jealousy or have a mix of both reasons. The negative fan reactions are hurting their idols either way and they are certainly overreactions. Shouting “traitor” at Baekhyun while he is working or making Taeyeon sad is not what a fan should do to their idols. This issue is still in the news and it is probably going to be there for a long time, meanwhile Dispatch is most likely following other idols to release more “news” and this relationship is facing a tough test not long into existence. I wish the best to both of them and I hope fans relax, but now I really want to know what the rest of you think.
Forgive and forget? Is it possible for this couple and can this new relationship take all this drama? Only time will tell.
[Source: Kpopstarz.com] Link: http://tinyurl.com/kevt497